Intimidating to say the very least and ended up being one of the most memorable nights of my life. My husband and I decided about 3 years ago to try the lifestyle. We had discussed and planned and schemed different scenarios and tactics of how to make it work that we were both comfortable with for months. We finally decided to try a swingers club and we were both terrified, I could barely get out of the car I was so nervous. We sat in the parking lot for a good 15 minutes before either of us could get the gall to go in.
I had been wanting to go but not to participate. I was with five of my friends, girls and guys. It was a holiday weekend so we were all trying to hang out. One of the guys there, who is one of my good male friends, I had had the conversation with him already about me being interested in going.