Like: If there are two holes in your vagina your urethra and your vaginal canal , which hole does sex happen in? And what about all this "popping the cherry" stuff I've heard about? And WTF is a hymen?! Let's start off by answering that last question.
What Exactly is a Hymen?
Losing Virginity Stories: 11 Women Open Up About Their First Time Having Sex | HuffPost
The hormones that surge through your body when you have sex can sometimes cause strong emotions afterwards. Some people believe in the concept of virginity. However, the traditional definition of virginity, which is the first time a person has penetrative penis-vagina intercourse, leaves out a lot of other types of sex, including oral sex and anal sex. Today, many people think the concept of virginity is antiquated and places unnecessary pressure on people to either have or not have sex. The truth is, for some people, having sex for the first time is a very important milestone in their lives, and this is totally normal. You may find it helpful to reflect on how you feel about it before you have sex, so you can share the information with your partner.
Losing Virginity Stories: 11 Women Open Up About Their First Time Having Sex
Despite what you see on TV and in movies, having sex for the first time is rarely romantic, pleasant, or sexy. Sure, it can be—in theory. It was with my boyfriend on our one-year anniversary. My anxiety got the best of me, and I freaked out and told him to stop after the first thrust.
The hymen is the stuff of legend and lore in many cultures, the treasured prize a woman gives her husband on their wedding night. People often do not know what it looks like or what really happens to it when virginity is lost. For example, some of my teen patients have questions about a partner male or female inserting a finger into a vagina. If a girl uses a tampon does that cause her to lose her virginity? If she falls off her bike, might that affect her hymen, and thus her virginity?